The Courage to Dislike - Part 1敢于讨厌的勇气 - 第一部分
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EN： The 'to-infinitive' (to + verb) is used here as an adjective to modify the noun 'courage'. It describes what kind of courage it is.
中文： 不定式（to + 动词）在此作为形容词使用，用来修饰名词「courage」（勇气）。它说明了这是什么样的勇气。
I have a lot of work to do.
我有很多要做的工作。
EN： The definite article 'The' is used to specify a particular concept or quality, making the noun 'courage' feel like a specific, defined philosophy or title.
中文： 定冠词「The」用于指定特定的概念或特质，使「courage」这个名词听起来像是一个具体、明确的哲学理念或标题。
The desire to win is strong.
赢的欲望很强烈。
EN： This phrase is the famous title of a book based on Adlerian psychology. In English, 'to dislike' can be active, but in the context of this famous philosophy, it refers to the courage to be disliked by others in order to live authentically.
中文： 這個短語是基於阿德勒心理學的名著書名。在英文中，「to dislike」可以是主動的「去討厭」，但在這個著名的哲學背景下，它指的是為了活出自我而「被他人討厭」的勇氣。
EN： The phrase 'all kinds of' is used to describe a wide variety of things or people. It is followed by a plural countable noun or an uncountable noun.
中文： 短语「all kinds of」用于描述各种各样的事物或人。其后通常接复数可数名词或不可数名词，表示种类繁多。
There are all kinds of books in the library.
图书馆里有各种各样的书。
EN： The prepositional phrase 'in our lives' functions as an adverbial of place/context, indicating the scope or time frame in which the action occurs.
中文： 介词短语「in our lives」作为地点或背景状语，表示动作发生的范围或时间范畴（在我们的生命/生活中）。
We face many challenges in our lives.
在我们的生活中，我们面临许多挑战。
EN： The sentence sets a philosophical tone similar to the book 'The courage to dislike', emphasizing that social diversity is an inevitable part of the human experience.
中文： 這句話奠定了一種與《被討厭的勇氣》相似的哲學基調，強調社交多樣性是人類經驗中不可避免的一部分。
EN： The correlative structure 'Some... others...' is used to contrast different groups within a larger whole. 'Others' is a pronoun meaning 'other people' or 'other things'.
中文： 关联结构「Some... others...」（有些人……其他人……）用于对比大群体中的不同部分。「Others」是一个代词，意指「其他人」或「其他事物」。
Some students like math, while others prefer history.
有些学生喜欢数学，而其他人则偏好历史。
EN： Linking verbs (like 'seem') are followed by adjectives or noun phrases to describe the subject. In the second clause, 'that way' functions as an adverbial phrase referring back to the previously mentioned qualities.
中文： 系动词（如 seem）后面接形容词或名词短语来描述主语。在第二个从句中，「that way」作为副词短语，指代前面提到的特质（酷且友善）。
He seems tired today, but he wasn't that way yesterday.
他今天看起来很累，但他昨天并非如此。
EN： In the context of 'The courage to dislike', this sentence highlights the social reality that we cannot please everyone, and not everyone will align with our values. It reflects a psychological boundary-setting common in modern self-help literature.
中文： 在《被討厭的勇氣》背景下，這句話強調了我們無法取悅所有人，且並非每個人的價值觀都與我們一致的社會現實。這反映了現代心理勵志文學中常見的「建立心理邊界」的概念。
EN： The conjunction 'Since' is used to introduce a reason or cause, similar to 'Because'. It often appears at the beginning of a sentence to provide background information for the main result.
中文： 从属连词「Since」在此用于引导原因或理由，意思与「Because」相似。它通常放在句首，为主句的结果提供背景说明。
Since it is raining, we should stay indoors.
既然正在下雨，我们应该待在室内。
EN： The phrasal verb 'get along with' means to have a friendly relationship with someone or to interact harmoniously.
中文： 短语动词「get along with」意为与某人和睦相处，或与某人保持友好的互动关系。
She gets along with all her coworkers.
她与所有的同事都相处得很融洽。
EN： The concept of 'getting along' is central to many social philosophies, including the ideas explored in 'The courage to dislike'. It reflects the social pressure to maintain harmony even when personal feelings might differ.
中文： 「和睦相處」(getting along) 的概念是許多社會哲學的核心，包括《被討厭的勇氣》中所探討的觀點。它反映了即使個人感受不同，社會仍普遍存在維持和諧的壓力。
EN： The conjunction 'as' is used here to indicate that two actions happen at the same time, often showing a progression or change. It is followed by a clause (subject + verb).
中文： 连词「as」在此处用于表示两个动作同时发生，通常用来展现进程或变化。其后接一个从句（主语 + 动词）。
As the sun set, the sky turned orange.
随着太阳下山，天空变成了橘色。
EN： The verb 'realize' is often followed by a noun clause (that-clause) acting as the object. In this sentence, the word 'that' is omitted, which is common in informal or spoken English.
中文： 动词「realize」（意识到）后面经常接一个名词性从句（that 从句）作为宾语。在本句中，连词「that」被省略了，这在非正式或口语英语中很常见。
I realize I forgot my keys.
我意识到我忘了带钥匙。
EN： The sentence reflects a psychological boundary-setting process often discussed in modern interpersonal relationships, similar to the themes in the book 'The courage to dislike'. It emphasizes that it is natural and acceptable to acknowledge negative feelings toward others.
中文： 這句話反映了現代人際關係中經常討論的心理界限設定過程，與《被討厭的勇氣》一書的主題相似。它強調承認對他人的負面情緒是自然且可以被接受的。
EN： The modal verb 'may' is used to express possibility. It is followed by the base form of the verb (in this case, 'be'). It suggests that something is likely but not certain.
中文： 情态动词「may」用于表达可能性，后接动词原形（本句中为 be）。它表示某事是有可能的，但并非绝对肯定。
It may rain later, so you should bring an umbrella.
待会儿可能会下雨，所以你应该带把伞。
EN： Parallel structure with adjectives: When listing multiple qualities or items using 'or' or 'and', the words should be in the same grammatical form. Here, 'mean', 'gossipy', and 'selfish' are all adjectives describing the subject.
中文： 形容词的平行结构：当使用「or」或「and」列举多个特质或项目时，单词应具备相同的语法形式。在此，「mean」、「gossipy」与「selfish」皆为描述主语的形容词。
The movie was long, boring, and confusing.
这部电影又长、又无聊，而且令人困惑。
EN： In the context of 'The courage to dislike', this sentence highlights the internal conflict between social harmony and personal values. Western psychological perspectives often emphasize setting boundaries with people who exhibit these negative traits, even if it means being disliked.
中文： 在《被討厭的勇氣》背景下，這句話強調了社會和諧與個人價值觀之間的內在衝突。西方心理學觀點通常強調要與展現這些負面特質的人劃清界限，即使這意味著會被討厭。
EN： The phrasal verb 'go against' means to be in opposition to something, such as a rule, principle, or belief. In this sentence, 'goes' is used in the third-person singular present tense to match the subject 'That'.
中文： 短语动词「go against」意为违背或违反某事，例如规则、原则或信念。在此句子中，「goes」使用第三人称单数现在时，以配合主语「That」。
His actions go against everything he stands for.
他的行为违背了他所代表的一切。
EN： Possessive adjectives (my, your, our, their, etc.) are used before a noun to show ownership or relationship. Here, 'our' indicates that the 'values' belong to us.
中文： 形容词性物主代词（my, your, our, their 等）用于名词前，表示所有权或关系。在这里，「our」表示这些「价值观」属于我们。
We must protect our environment.
我们必须保护我们的环境。
EN： In the context of 'The courage to dislike', this sentence emphasizes the importance of personal boundaries and integrity. It suggests that social harmony should not come at the expense of one's core principles.
中文： 在「被討厭的勇氣」語境下，這句話強調了個人界限與誠信的重要性。它暗示社會和諧不應以犧牲個人的核心原則為代價。
EN： The phrase 'feel bad about' is used to express guilt or regret. It is followed by a gerund (V-ing) or a noun phrase to indicate the cause of the feeling.
中文： 短语「feel bad about」用于表达内疚或遗憾。其后接动名词 (V-ing) 或名词短语，用来表示产生这种感觉的原因。
I feel bad about forgetting her birthday.
我因为忘了她的生日而感到愧疚。
EN： The modal verb 'may' is used to express possibility. It suggests that something is likely but not certain.
中文： 情态动词「may」用于表达可能性，暗示某事是有可能的，但并不确定。
It may rain later this afternoon.
今天下午晚些时候可能会下雨。
EN： In many cultures, there is a strong social pressure to be liked and to like everyone back. This sentence reflects the psychological burden discussed in 'The courage to dislike', suggesting that it's natural but sometimes unnecessary to feel guilty for having negative feelings toward others.
中文： 在許多文化中，人們面臨著必須受人喜愛以及必須喜愛每個人的強大社交壓力。這句話反映了《被討厭的勇氣》中所討論的心理負擔，暗示對他人產生負面情緒而感到愧疚雖然是自然的，但有時是不必要的。
EN： The verb 'try' followed by a to-infinitive (to + verb) indicates making an effort to do something difficult or intentional.
中文： 动词「try」后接不定式（to + 动词）表示努力尝试去做某件具有挑战性或带有目的的事情。
I will try to finish the work by five.
我会努力在五点前完成工作。
EN： The structure 'keep + object + adjective/participle' is used to describe maintaining a specific state or continuous action for the object.
中文： 「keep + 宾语 + 形容词/分词」的结构用来描述维持宾语处于某种特定状态或持续进行的动作。
Please keep the door open.
请保持门开着。
EN： In many cultures, including those influenced by the ideas in 'The courage to dislike', there is a social pressure to maintain harmony (wa) even when we feel uncomfortable. This sentence reflects the common struggle between personal boundaries and social expectations.
中文： 在許多文化中（包括受《被討厭的勇氣》思想影響的文化），即使感到不適，往往也存在維持和諧（和）的社會壓力。這句話反映了個人界限與社會期待之間的常見掙扎。
EN： Partial Negation: When 'not' is used with words like 'always', 'every', or 'all', it means 'not necessarily' or 'not in every case', rather than 'never'.
中文： 部分否定：当 'not' 与 'always' (总是)、'every' (每个) 或 'all' (全部) 等词连用时，表示「不一定」或「并非总是」，而非完全否定（从不）。
Rich people are not always happy.
有钱人并不总是快乐的。
EN： Infinitive as Adjective: The phrase 'to take' is a to-infinitive used as an adjective to modify the noun 'action', indicating what kind of action it is or what should be done with it.
中文： 不定式作为形容词：短语 'to take' 是不定式用法，在此作为形容词修饰名词 'action' (行动)，说明是什么样的行动或该对此行动做什么。
I have a lot of work to do.
我有很多要做的工作。
EN： In the context of 'The courage to dislike', this sentence reflects a psychological boundary. It suggests that maintaining social harmony (keeping the relationship going) is not always the most healthy or 'right' choice if it compromises one's values.
中文： 在《被討厭的勇氣》背景下，這句話反映了一種心理界限。它暗示如果維持社交和諧（繼續維持關係）會違背個人的價值觀，那麼這並不總是健康或「正確」的選擇。
重要单词附有 IPA 发音、定义、例句和互动式测验。
在本文中： 勇气；胆量
在本文中： 意识到；察觉
在本文中： 爱说长道短的；爱聊八卦的
在本文中： 自私的
在本文中： 价值观
在本文中： 关系；人际关系
在本文中： 行动；做法
片语包含类型标示、双语定义、用法说明和例句。
To have a friendly relationship with someone.
与某人相处融洽
To be opposite to or conflict with something.
违背，与...背道而驰
To maintain or continue a situation or activity.
维持，使...持续下去
A wide variety of different types.
各种各样的